What Jewelry Should You Wear
To Your Wedding?
First, consider is your gown and your wedding motif.
A simple gown merits an elaborate jewelry design heighten the accent.
High necks can provide the perfect backdrop for large gems serving
as a lavaliere (a pendant on a necklace). A low-cut neck makes way
for a multi-layer arrangement of gems or pearls.
As the bride, you can wear the more elaborate earrings, if you
so prefer. Gems can hang on chandelier earrings, especially if you
have a long-ish face. Studs serve to frame the face - circles for
round faces, squares for long faces.
For your wrist, a bracelet over your glove will do wonders. You
can
opt to wear a watch though this is not a traditional wedding accessory.
If you absolutely need to be abreast of the time, bring a mobile
phone in your little bridal purse. This will also help keep you
on top of everything.
If your veil requires a headpiece, discuss this with your hair
designer. A tiara can be a wonderful accent, though a floral arrangement
can be a refreshing alternative. In some cases, a combination of
the two would be perfect. In any case, let the expert advise you
on this.
The color depends on your preference but there are traditional
choices - pearls and diamonds. In recent years, gems have gained
more popularity to serve as a consistent thread among the jewelry
of the bride and the entourage. The color motif helps guide which
stones to use - sapphires and lapis lazulis for blue, gold and amber
for yellow and orange, emeralds and jades for greens, amethyst for
pinks and purples, and others.
Second, make sure that your pieces match in some way. You don't
need to buy an entire set, especially if you have an heirloom you
can use. Get pieces that have aspects similar to what you have -
color, cut, type of gem, design, etc.
The more subdued versions will do for the ladies of the entourage,
especially the flower girls.
Lasty, turn your attention to the men - especially your groom!
You'd be amazed at the accessories they use.
The most essential of the lot are the cufflinks. If these can be
in the same motif as your jewelry, it would be great. But remember
that most people prefer to be able to use expensive pieces more
than once. It is important to consider also what he likes.
Another essential piece in his look is the tie pin. This should
also be consistent with his cufflinks. Optional pieces include collar
pins, dress watches or chain watches.
For the completely consistent jewelry for you and your entire entourage,
you can customize the design. This will save you hours poring over
glass cases and catalogues but it can be expensive. So, consider
this well.
At the end of the day, as the bride, it is your decision--your
choices, your budget and your jewelry. Be open to those who can
help you - you can use all the help you can get! It all boils down
to you - no matter what you wear, you are the radiant bride whose
smile gives the best sparkle of all.
by Tom Takihi
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