Choosing the Perfect Ring
The wedding rings and engagement rings you choose will be one of
the most enduring pieces of your wedding day. Your ring is not only
a important element of becoming married, but its also a longlasting
symbol of your love and commitment. Therefore, you'll want to choose
rings that are timeless and high quality.
Ultimately, you'll also want to be an educated consumer who knows
what you're getting for your dollar.
Style:
Follow your instincts with the look and design of your ring, while
asking yourself if it will be a design you'll be comfortable wearing
every day for the rest of your life. The traditional plain gold
band will be in style for years to come. If that's too plain for
you, consider a beaded edge or an engraved style. For a slighty
flashier look, what about a ring of channel-set diamonds? Ultimately,
choose a ring that you feel is expressive of your style and personality.
I've heard of a couple that chose to have rings custom-made that
resembled bicycle gears, reflecting their mutual love of bike-riding.
There's really no wrong answer as to what style of ring you should
choose.
Gold, Silver or Platinum?
Many couples choose the metal for their bands by matching it to
their engagement ring. However, don't feel bound to this. A bride
can choose to wear her engagement ring on her right hand, and wedding
ring on the left. Also, each of you can wear a similar style in
different metals. Consider which metals each of you wear regularly
- is most of her jewelry silver? Is his watch gold?
Primary ring metal choices include:
• Yellow gold:
the most traditional of ring metals; for many gold is a symbol of
the warmth and love of a marriage. Look at the mark inside the band
to see what quality the gold is - usually 14k, 18k, or 24k. While
24k is the most pure, it is also the softest. If you work with your
hands, you may want to choose 14k or 18k to prevent scratches.
• White Gold:
A hot trend because it coordinates with both silver and platinum
jewelry, yet is cheaper than platinum.
• Platinum:
This very stylish metal is also the hardest metal, making it for
many a symbol of enduring love. Also, because its not mixed with
the lesser metals that gold rings are, platinum is safe for those
with alloys. However, you'll pay more for platinum than for gold.
Precious Gems
When considering precious gems for a ring, remember that you will
likely wear this ring every day for the rest of your life. Therefore,
while softer stones can be beautiful, they aren't the best choices
for an engagement or wedding ring. The Mohs scale registers a stone's
ability to resist abrasion; 10 (diamonds) is the strongest and 1
(talc) is the weakest. Anything less than a Mohs scale 7 is not
recommended for an engagement ring. If you are a person who does
a lot of activity with their hands (how long does a manicure last
on you?) then I would advise limiting your selection to rubies,
sapphires and diamonds.
To help you out, here's a list of common stones, and their hardness
level:
Diamonds 10
Rubies 9
Sapphire 9
Emerald 8
Topaz 8
Aquamarine 7.5 to 8
Amethyst 7
Garnet 6.5 to 7.5
Opal 6
You should also know that a general rule of thumb is the darker
the color, the more expensive the stone.
By nina calaway
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